I knew it would be difficult but I didn’t realize it would be one of the best decisions I’d ever make.
A couple of weeks back, I decided to deactivate my social media accounts as my way of calibrating my lifestyle towards becoming more, for lack of a better word, private. My life is riddled with so much pressure already coming from different areas of my environment and social media didn’t help that. If any, it even made things worse for me. I realize I was putting myself into the circumstance of feeling like I owe everything to the world. I was taking pictures to get people to like it, posting status for people to react to and I was molding my life into the kind that people would wanna be in. I was changing a lot about myself and the worst part is, I didn’t even notice this. I was so engrossed with being part of the community that probably didn’t even realize my existence which to be honest, the thought of that would scare me before but now, it actually feels liberating.
I do have some episodes of drifting back a little by checking some posts here and there but the good thing is, I’ve definitely shrunk down my circle — keeping important souls and leaving unnecessary baggages.
I haven’t had much progress in losing weight if I were to be honest but right now, there really isn’t much unwanted pressure anymore and it’s truly helpful! I’m driving by my own pace, focusing on my goals and enjoying every part of this journey. In two months, I’m targeting to lose at least 16 lbs. and then continue on a steady pace after that. It’s a mountain to climb but I’m more stable now. Taking in the pressure but rejecting unnecessary ones.
This whole social media detox is difficult but definitely worth every bit of resistance I had to go through.